Why do Jealous people deserve pity?

Aayu Kharbanda
2 min readJul 16, 2021

Whenever we achieve something in life, some people will be jealous of our achievements. It is a common response to hate these jealous people (haters). This article will give you 3 logical reasons why you should pity these people.

Before We Begin, You must know to avoid close interactions with such people cause they would pass on their hatred to you, making things worse.

I explained 5 types of people (why to avoid haters ) in this article here

What is Jealousy?

Jealousy generally refers to the thoughts or feelings of insecurity, fear, and concern over a relative lack of possessions or safety. Jealousy can consist of one or more emotions such as anger, resentment, inadequacy, helplessness, or disgust.

3 Reasons they deserve your pity

1. They have fallen into the trap of comparison

The worst thing one can do to oneself is to compare oneself to others. Everyone has their own journey in life. Comparing your current position to someone else’s position is illogical and disrespectful towards yourself.

2. They have lost self-worth

They have compared themselves and found that they are lacking something. This leads to low self-esteem and self-confidence. These qualities are mandatory for all forms of success from relationships to careers.

3. They have become passive

Jealousy is a passive emotion. It hinders your ability to think and to take action. Jealous people just freeze at their spot and continue hating one person this makes them unable to take action for their own wellbeing.


If you know someone is jealous of you, be kind to them because they already are doing themselves so much harm that you need not harm them anymore.

If you are jealous of someone, understand that you are pulling yourself further back and the comparison is inadequate.



Aayu Kharbanda

An ambitious guy trying to disrupt education industry.