How to Fail Successfully?

What to do when you fail?

Aayu Kharbanda
2 min readSep 2, 2021

Let me ask you two questions

Do you want to fail?

Have you failed in the past?

If you asked No and Yes respectively then you understand that failure is inevitable and this article will help you fail successfully.

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How to F the Failure?

You failed. Here is what you must do next: -

Step 1: Feel the Failure

It is essential to feel bad and sad after failure. Screen Out loud or shed a few tears. Embrace your emotions. This is the fundamental step and most people avoid it. They act as if nothing happened. When you allow yourself to feel the Failure you can move on to further steps, else you stay stuck in denial.

Step 2: Face the Failure

After completing Step 1, Most people start giving excuses or start blaming someone for the failure. What you have to do is to look right into the Failure. Analyze it with complete impartiality. Find out all the reasons behind the failure and all the implications of it. This Knowledge is as precious as gold.

Step 3: Forget the Failure

After Step 2 you would extract full value out of your failure. Now is the time to let go of the grief. This is the time to get rid of the guilt and regret and move on with time.

This is how you F the Failure in 3 easy steps.


Failures are essential parts of life, If you respond to them using the 3 F’s you will utilize the failures to attain success. I call this Failing successfully.



Aayu Kharbanda

An ambitious guy trying to disrupt education industry.